Reluctant Spouse

Prepping with a reluctant wife 

Welcome back to our blog, where we share tips and insights on preparing for emergency situations. In today's post, we want to address a common challenge that many people face when it comes to prepping - dealing with a reluctant spouse.

We understand that not everyone in a relationship may share the same level of enthusiasm or concern when it comes to prepping. It can be frustrating for one partner who is fully committed to being prepared while the other is hesitant or resistant.

If you find yourself in this situation, know that you are not alone. Many couples struggle with this issue, but there are steps you can take to overcome it and work together towards a common goal.

Firstly, communication is key. Sit down with your spouse and have an honest conversation about your concerns and why you believe being prepared is important. Listen to their thoughts and feelings without judgment and try to understand where they are coming from.

It may be that your spouse simply doesn't have enough knowledge or information about the potential risks and benefits of prepping. In this case, take the time to educate them on the basics but also allow them to do their own research and come to their own conclusions.

Another common reason for reluctance towards prepping is the perceived cost associated with it. This is where compromise comes into play. Sit down together and create a budget specifically for emergency supplies. This can help ease any financial concerns while still allowing you both to prepare for unexpected situations.

If your spouse is concerned about the amount of time and effort it takes to prep, work together to come up with a plan that fits into your daily routine. This could mean setting aside certain days of the week for prepping activities or delegating tasks to each other. By working together, you can make prepping a more manageable and less daunting task.

Communication is key in any relationship, especially when it comes to something as important as emergency preparedness. Take the time to have an open and honest conversation with your spouse about your concerns and their concerns. Listen actively and try to understand their perspective while also sharing your own.

Lastly, don't forget to celebrate small victories! As you both continue on this journey towards preparedness, take the time to acknowledge and celebrate every milestone reached. This will not only help you stay motivated, but it will also strengthen your relationship as you work towards a common goal.
 I have a about 25 different containers with different preps. Each is labelled and most are inventoried. The ones not inventoried are a few containers of Freeze Dry in Mylar bags and some medical gear.  It pisses me off when I take a lot of time, money and effort for just the right gear and equipment for my family to survive only to have the wife ask me why this crap is here. 
She doesn't mind going to my stocks and taking our rice but won't restock it when she goes grocery shopping. 
I have a Harvest Right Freeze Dryer which I use instead of canning . She exclaims that if SHTF she wont eat anything freeze dried and would rather die. Then in a oxymoronic fashion, she asks me to go get some of the freeze dried carrots from my preppers garden to make some soup. In a way Im happy that she willing to use the freeze dried carrots.  They added so much flavor to the soup. 

My wife said no way to reloading any ammo in my house .  Her only understanding is of a friend who has a monstrous multistage press.   I opted for a single stage press. So I did it anyway.

I will keep prepping for my family despite her negativity. 
In conclusion, emergency preparedness is crucial for any household and should be seen as a joint effort between partners. By communicating openly, dividing tasks, and celebrating progress together, you can create a strong foundation for successfully navigating through any crisis that may come your way. So start the conversation with your spouse and begin taking steps towards being prepared today!

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